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Feccere Nayaɓere

Deftere nde en udditaa

Ko ngam ɗum en limata kala huunde so wonaa ko’e meeɗen?

Hedde mintiiji 5 e janngugol

Lina ina ummotoo nde baaba makko wi’i: «Jooɗo seeɗa. Hol nde cakkiti-ɗaa jooɗaade e am waktu timmuɗo?». Pooti lekki ina wonnoo dow taabal, cinndel makko e junngo ngo ɓamaani mboros. O wi’i: «Yontere ɓennunde, baaba». Caggal ɗuum o siftori yontere ɓennunde ndee: mintiiji jeetati, lekki, e cinndel. O ruttini mboros e balbe makko, o woɗɗini pooti kaani e daande taabal. E dow ɗakkiire konngol ngol baaba makko winndunoo e binndol makko moxlingol belngol. Pootiiji ɓeebule keddiiɗi ɗii fof ina njogii ngol binndol kadi.

Baaba makko ina jogii hedde duuɓi capanɗe jeegom, omo hoɗi e woɗɗude mintiiji sappo. O rewa e makko kala balɗe ɗiɗi walla tati: o fawa lekki, o uddita frigo, o naamnoo ko faati e ƴiiƴam, caggal ɗuum o jaaboo ɓataake hade juuɗe makko yoorde. O haalaniino laawol gootol gariroowo: «Limoowo kaalis e nder fedde teddunde». Omo wonnoo e defirde ina nana mo, o feewni pooti oonyiingo dow ŋoral.

E nder moota montor makko yerɓii: yaɓɓanɗe ujunnaaje jeenay e teemedde nay e sappo e ɗiɗi. Ɗaangol ko capanɗe jeeɗiɗi e go’o e nder teemedere. E dow seŋo moota: njoɓdi petrool ɓeydiima jeetati e nder teemedere e oo lewru. O udditi suudu maandeeji, o winndi «Baaba», caggal ɗuum o darii. O anndaa limoore nde o fawata sara makko.

Ko Etootaako Ina Soororoo

E aan? Waktuuji foti deeƴɗi ɓam-ɗaa e oo lewru e yimɓe ɓurɓe ɓaditaade ma?

En ndewa e ko newii winndude, en njaŋtoo ko en ngaddanaani waktu ngam ƴeewtaade. Yaɓɓanɗe cinndel limanta ma ɗe. Waktu e mo njiɗ-ɗaa alaa limanoowo ma ɗum so wonaa aan.

Uddit yontere maa e nokku siftinde nde. A wiyii aɗa jannga kala kikiiɗe; e kikiide foti uddit-ɗaa deftere tigi? A wiyii a ustii coodguuli maa; no foti njoɓ-ɗaa e geɗe ɗe ngonaano e doggol maa? A aadiima miñiraawo maa a wallat mo; laabi foti mbi’ru-ɗaa mo «caggal seeɗa» haa o ɗaanii? Woto winndu «Miɗo etoo». Winndu ko waɗi. Saangaaji jeeɗiɗi ngam janngude e saangaaji ɗiɗi ɗi tawtora-ɗaa. Aadiiji tati ngam ballal e gootol ngol kebbin-ɗaa. Ɗee limooje ina njogii batte ɗe konngol «Miɗo heewi golle» alaa. Tee ina gasa ɗuum tigi woni ko waɗi aɗa duñoo udditde deftere ndee.

Nde battane keddortoo e niɓɓere, aɗa waawi ɓamde e hoore maa nate ɗiɗi luurooje: neɗɗo fawroowo paandaale tiiɗɗe, e neɗɗo mo heɓataa waktu ngam majje hay laawol. Hello ngoo ina renndina nate ɗiɗi ɗee. A yiyat wonde waktu oo yahi ko e huunde wonnde, e wonde ko noddanno-ɗaa ngonkaaji ina ruttotoo e ñalawma e waktu gooto. Alaa sarɗi a holla yimɓe hello ngoo. Janngu ɗum aan e hoore maa tawa faawnugol alaa. So a anndaa to aadi maa yani, hol ko aadi yontere garoore seerndirta? Limoore nde ndogataa hannde ina waawi hollude ma waylo-waylo aranndeejo mo mbaaw-ɗaa waɗde jaŋngo.

Ƴettu bi’oowo: Miɗo waɗa dille ɓanndu sahaa e sahaa. Konngol goongaawal, kono ngol maanaata hay huunde e limooje. Sahaa e sahaa ina waawi wonde laabi ɗiɗi e yontere, walla laabi ɗiɗi e lewru.

Ko etootaako majjataa e kabaaru. Ina soororoo e lefol, ñalawma caggal ñalawma, tawa en teskaaki toɓɓere waylo-waylo. Sendindiral hakkunde haŋki e hannde ina famɗi haa tesketaake, tee nde kumpit-ɗaa e timmoode, woɗɗere ndee wontii mawnde.

Kuɓɓam Goongaam

Wiɗtooɓe Teresa Amabile e Steven Kramer ndewiima e hedde 12,000 kaye ñalnde kala winndaaɗe e yimɓe 238 e nder pelle golle 26 e nder gollorɗe 7, ngam ɗaɓɓude daliilu gooto: Ko ngam ɗum ñalawma gooto ɓuri ñalawma goɗɗo moƴƴude?

Ɓe keɓi, e deftere maɓɓe The Progress Principle (2011), wonde daliilu ɓurɗo tiiɗde ko faamde ɓeydaare laaɓnde, hay so famɗunde, e huunde tiiɗnde e maa1. Balɗe moƴƴe soklaano sahaa fof gollal mawngal; hay ɓeydaare famɗunde e golle jogiiɗe maana ina seŋinoo e weltaare ɓurnde moƴƴude.

Badiiɗo montor maa mahanii ma alluwal ngam yaɓɓanɗe maa. Kono hol mahannooɗo ma alluwal kollitoowal ɓeydaare maa e jokkondiral maa e neene maa walla baaba maa, walla e aadi ndi nduñ-noo-ɗaa gila duuɓi?

Hay gooto.

Deftere Ina Ɓeyda Batte

Ƴeewndo ganndal mawngo, ngo ganndo Benjamin Harkin e gollodiiɓe mum ardinoo, renndinii wiɗtooji 138 e dow ƴeewndoragol paandaale, ɗi hedde 20,000 neɗɗo tawtoraa2.

Kattudi mum ina newii: kala ƴeeɓoowo ɓeydaare mum feewde paandaale mum heɓata ko ɓuri heen, e hakkundeewal, e mo ƴeeɓataa. Batte ɗee ina mawna kadi ina famɗa e fannu e laawol ƴeewndo; ƴeeɓagol ngol kañum tan hoolnaaki paandaale, kono ina tekka baafal.

Batte ɗee ɓurnoo mawnude ko nde ɓeydaare ndee winndaa wonaa nde resaa e hakkille, kadi ɓuri mawnude nde goɗɗo anndi ɗum. Ɗee ko ceerndiyeeji hakkunde dente wiɗtooji, wonaa aadi wonde limoore maa hebbinto laabi ɗiɗi. Kono ɗi fof ɗi kolliti bannge gooto: Winndu ɗum, kadi haalan goɗɗo.

Limoore winndaande ina fottana ma yeeso, nde accataa ma faawnude. Limoore nde goɗɗo anndi kadi ina ɓeyda ko deftere ndee tan hokkaani: goɗɗo ina naamnotoo.

Binnditagol Yontere

Ɗuum wonaa waylude nguurndam wontude kaye waktuuji jaaŋɗo: limooje ɗiɗi walla tati tan, wonaa kala huunde, wonaa kala ñalawma e fannu mum. Paandaale ko ngam a yiya suura, wonaa ngam a wuura e nder hiisaaji. Deftere ndee ɗoo ko maccel pamarel, wonaa joom ngalu.

Fuɗɗor deftere famɗunde ngam ko hay gooto limantaa ma.

E timmoode yontere Lina winndi: Mi yilloyiima baaba am laabi tati. O holli gorko makko hello ngoo, o wi’i: «No foti jooɗi-ɗaa?». O udditi kaye noddaango ngam siftorde, caggal ɗuum nate hannde, caggal ɗuum ɓataakeeji. Hay huunde wallaani mo. Njilluuji tati ɗii ina mbaawi limeede, kono waktu heddinooɗo caggal feewnude lekki o winndaani ɗum. O winndi e les njilluuji ɗii: «Ko ɓuri yontere ɓennunde». O ƴeewi diidol ngol, caggal ɗuum o ƴeewi mo. O momti konngol «Ko ɓuri», o acci nokku mum meere. Jemma garoowo o winndi mintiiji njillu nguu e sahaa gartol makko, hade makko udditde ɓataakeeji golle. Limoore ndee feeñi ko famɗi e hello yaajngo, o famɗinaani nde e binndol moxlingol hono no o waɗata so taabal njoɓdi ɓillii.

Nde kuutortoo-ɗaa ɗum: Nde anndu-ɗaa limooje app tawa a anndaa ko ndokku-ɗaa aadi tiiɗndi e maa. Sahaa kuutoragol: Miniti gooto kala jemma, e mintiiji joy ngam ƴeewtaade hello e timmoode yontere.

  1. Suɓo limooje ɗiɗi walla tati tiiɗɗe e maa tigi: Waktuuji deeƴɗi e mo njiɗ-ɗaa, walla laabi ɗi noddu-ɗaa neene maa, walla jemmaaji ɗi nyiffu-ɗaa cinndel waktu gooto hade ɗaangol.
  2. Faw ɗe e hello wooto newiingo: Ñalawma, e limoore, tawa saɗtinde alaa e tawa app goɗɗo alaa.
  3. Winndu limoore kala jemma e diidol gootol: Woto fadu timmoode yontere ngam hiisaade e teskuya, teskuya ina waawi faawnude walla juumde.
  4. Hollu gooto hello maa e timmoode kala yontere: Ƴeewndo feeñngo heewi ɓurde doole ƴeewndo suuɗiingo.

So a yanii: Winndu limoore ndee hono no waɗiri, hay so ko sifir (0), caggal ɗuum heblan saanga gooto ngam yontere garoore.

Caggal yontere ɗiɗi e kaye binnditagol Lina holli gorko mum hello ngoo. Waktuuji tati e baaba makko e nder yontere ɗiɗi ɗee, ko ɓuri heewde heen ko e yontere ɗiɗmere ndee. O naamnii: «Ina heƴi?». O wi’i: «Ko aan woni cuɓotooɗo». O fawi diidol e les limoore ndee, o winndi: Aset, waktu gooto tawa cinndel alaa.

E yontere tataɓere o fawi cinndel e nder moota, o naati galle baaba makko. Caggal mintiiji sappo o ummii ngam ƴeewde frigo o. O wi’i: «Lekki ina e nokku mum». O jooɗii, o woɗɗini pooti kaani e daande taabal hono no o waɗnoo laawol aranndewol, caggal ɗuum o jooɗɗini junngo makko e jiiba makko meere tawa cinndel alaa. O jali: «A majjinii huunde?». O wi’i: «Oo waktu ko maaɗa».

O naamnii mo ko faati e gollal makko aranndewal. O dilli kopo ataaya dow mbalndi makko, o wi’i: «To gorko mo meeɗaa-mi yiyde e nguurndam am junngo ɓurngo tiiɗde e junngo makko…». Lina ɓamti hoore mum, kono o ƴeewi montor. O naamnii mo: «Caggal ɗuum?». O wi’i: «Daartol juutngol. Aset garoowo». O fadi seeɗa, caggal ɗuum o ruttini ɓaawo makko e jooɗorgal.

Nde o ummii caggal waktu gooto o wi’i: «Hannde a jooɗiima». E nder moota o winndi mintiiji capanɗe jeegom. O winndaani wonde o feewnii huunde. O haalani gorko makko e kikiiɗe: «Miɗo sokli limde jooɗagol ngol e hoore mum». Caggal ɗuum o udditi kaye waktuuji cinndel makko, o heblani waktu Aset garoowo ngam heddiiɓe daartol baaba makko.

Limoore nde a anndaa

Naamne ɗiɗi tan. Aranndeere jemma hannde: Hol fannu tiiɗɗo e nguurndam maa mo a ƴeeɓataa jooni? Winndu limoore makko aranndeere hade maa ɗaanaade.

Ɗiɗmere caggal yontere gila winndu-ɗaa nde: Hol ko jiyt-ɗaa, e hol waylo-waylo mo ƴeewtat-ɗaa?

Tuugnorɗe (2)
  1. 1Amabile, T., & Kramer, S. (2011). The Progress Principle: Using Small Wins to Ignite Joy, Engagement, and Creativity at Work. Harvard Business Review Press.
  2. 2Harkin, B., Webb, T. L., Chang, B. P. I., Prestwich, A., Conner, M., Kellar, I., Benn, Y., & Sheeran, P. (2016). Does monitoring goal progress promote goal attainment? A meta-analysis of the experimental evidence. Psychological Bulletin, 142(2), 198–229.